I'm a Work-in-Progress

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My life has been crazy recently. We bought a new house, painted almost every room, did other repairs, packed, moved out of the rental and into the new house, cleaned the rental, and unpacked. (Not that we're done!) A new house always requires some "editing." That's not in the right place; that doesn't fit well. Sometimes it needs additions: a shelf here, some hooks there. Other items are removed. There are adjustments. It's a Work-in-Progress with still more unpacking, fixing and painting to do.

My writing, of course, is affected by my life. When things get so busy, less writing gets done. Current projects get put on hold. Blogging definitely goes by the wayside. Unfortunately, I get out of the habit of writing. But not like many other habits--flossing my teeth--when things in my life quiet down, something in me starts bugging me: "Write. Write something. What about the work-in-progress? What's that character going to do next? Write something for your blog. Recommend another good book. Write!" And I'm thankful for those nudges.

However, there are benefits to being away from my writing for a while. I get filled up with new experiences. Some experiences I'd rather not have, I'll admit. My most recent one was a broken ankle requiring surgery. It's too soon to know whether that will directly go into a book or story, but I have learned some things that will definitely affect my outlook and my life and, I'm sure at some point, my writing.

I've learned that handicapped access is not always so accessible. Have you ever thought there were "too many" handicapped parking spaces in a parking lot? I have. But not anymore. I haven't been able to walk for 3 weeks now and have another 3 and a half before there's a possibility to walk. I've been fortunate to have a knee walker to use, which is way better than crutches, but it is still exhausting. I have a temporary parking permit to use handicapped spots. I don't go out much, but I'm finding handicapped spots aren't always where they are needed. Or they are filled. And when we do go out and get a parking spot, those little wheels on the knee walker jar or stick at every bump and crack in the asphalt or pavement. Going up a ramp is work. Going down a ramp is scary. (What if I get going too fast and lose control and fall?!) My handicap will be over soon. But many people don't get a "you'll be free of it" time. I hope when I'm back on my two feet, I'll be more empathetic.

I've been on the receiving end of stares. I'm old enough it doesn't really bother me, but I know some people it would. Borrowing a mall wheelchair to do some Christmas shopping, my husband was pushing me through an area and a woman told her little kids, "Don't stare." If she hadn't been whipping by so fast, I would have liked to explain to the kids why I was in a wheelchair. Not for me, but for them and their understanding. I hope she explained more later.

But here again is where writing comes in. I want my words to do more than entertain. I want them to be useful in some way. Maybe readers through my characters' experiences will learn something new, or learn empathy, or be encouraged because others have had similar experiences. And I've just had more experiences to throw into my personal resource file.

So, all that said, I can't complain about a crazy life. Well, I shouldn't complain.

But didn't I say I was a "Work-in-Progress?"

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I think we never know how much some things affect people till we come up against them ourselves. Since I had my back surgery I find I cannot walk up or down stairs without a rail to hold onto. Like you I don't care what it looks like. Hope you're up and about soon and able to use some of your experiences in your writing.

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